Honesty In All Relations

Honesty is needed with others, and with ourselves as we navigate our life and what we wish to create.

There are so many layers of energetic residue and overwhelm that form when we ignore, when we dismiss, when we reject, sugarcoat, or suppress our honest emotions.⁣⁣

⁣ Let others know what you are going through and what your needs are.

Otherwise, people are left filling in the blanks themselves and it feels messy.

It can feel terrifying, but it is necessary.

It is relief in its purest form. ⁣⁣⁣

And if you aren’t feeling clear on some stuff.. you just say that too.

—> “Let me get back to you once this becomes more clear for me!”

Bam. ⁣⁣

Sometimes our honesty feels like it will stir the pot, open a can of worms, hurt someones feelings, be “too much”... but do you know how exhausting that can be long-term?

Don’t sacrifice your own needs for people pleasing. It doesn’t work. It eventually cracks and crumbles.

What you can do is recognize what your needs are, act upon them, be honest, and blaze the trail for others to do the same.

By taking care of your needs you are 100% equipped to help others. Your foundation is strong. ⁣⁣

I am super introverted and intuitive ( plus if you follow human design I am a reflector) so it is important that I have time alone to sink into my own energy. When I make the space for a good hermit sesh, my time out in the world is more potent and real. I feel 100% like myself. This is what works for me, though. When you go within, you will probably find a different map of needs.

Everyones is different and this is vital to remember.

We all need time to go into repair mode and gather intel in the way we prefer to.⁣

⁣ I am letting you all know that you don’t really need an explanation, you don’t have to grapple with how your self-nurturing might impact others. You just do it. And in the process, you will be surprised at how much your honesty will free others too. ⁣